Rae A. Stonehouse is a Canadian born author & speaker. His professional career as a Registered Nurse working predominantly in psychiatry/mental health, has spanned four decades.
Rae has embraced the principal of CANI (Constant and Never-ending Improvement) as promoted by thought leaders such as Tony Robbins and brings that philosophy to each of his publications and presentations.
Rae has dedicated the latter segment of his journey through life to overcoming his personal inhibitions. As a 27+ year member of Toastmasters International he has systematically built his self-confidence and communicating ability. He is passionate about sharing his lessons with his readers and listeners. His publications thus far are of the personal/professional self-help, self-improvement genre and systematically offer valuable sage advice on a specific topic.
His writing style can be described as being conversational. As an author Rae strives to have a one-to-one conversation with each of his readers, very much like having your own personal self-development coach. Rae is known for having a wry sense of humour that features in his publications.
Author of Self-Help Downloadable E-Books, paperbacks and on-line courses:
Power Networking for Shy People: How to Network Like a Pro
52 Power Networking Tips: How to Network Like a Pro
PROtect Yourself Now! Violence Prevention for Healthcare Workers
The Savvy Emcee: How to be a Dynamic Master of Ceremonies.
Power of Promotion: On-line Marketing for Toastmasters Club Growth
You're Hired! Job Search Strategies That Work: Available as an easily downloadable e-book or as an on-line e-course.
You're Hired! Resume Tactics: Job Search Strategies That Work
Job Interview Preparation: Job Search Strategies That Work
Leveraging Your Network: Job Search Strategies That Work
You're Hired! Power Tactics: Job Search Strategies That Work
Working With Words: Adding Life to Your Oral Presentations
Blow Your Own Horn! Personal Branding for Business Professionals
Make it Safe! A Family Caregiver's Home Safety Assessment Guide for Supporting Elders@Home
Rae’s social … are you?
Linkedin? Rae is http://www.linkedin.com/in/raestonehouse
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I was recently asked my thoughts on the effects of publicizing high-profile suicides? ‘I know there has been studies showing a rise in average suicide rates and emergency room admissions for attempted suicide following a celebrity death.’
I had to give some thought to the question.
I haven’t seen the studies asserting that there is an increase in average suicide rates and emergency room admissions for attempted suicide following a celebrity death.
I’m not sure how to interpret this question. One way would be that the question is looking for tips from professional speed networkers. This would presume that there is a subsector of elite networkers that consider themselves professionals. If so, I would expect that they are self-proclaimed professionals. That leads me to wonder that if they are so good, why do they have to keep producing more connections? Wouldn’t it be better to build quality relationships with the number of connections they already have i.e. quality over quantity?
I don’t think that there is an absolute answer to this question. The answer probably lies in one’s ability to take advantage of different networking models.
Well, the good news, if there is any, is that you are not alone. I don’t know where in the world you are located but the Shyness Institute, located in the USA, reports that more than 50% of North Americans describe themselves as being shy in social situations.
I agree with John Lombard’s well written answer. I would go with having several cards created to reflect whatever business you are promoting at the time.
I too face similar challenges with being a serial entrepreneur. I joke that my title is ‘serial entrepreneur’ because until I actually make any money at it … I eat a lot of cereal!
This question appears to have been kicking around for a while. On January 9, 2015 the author added the following comment: “Good point. I guess I should have asked, "What is the best way to network when you hate networking with a passion." I am great one-on-one and I really enjoy public speaking and performing in front of a large group of people. I just don't like networking. I would like to get better at it and wondered if anyone had any tips they could share.”
That really depends on what benchmarks you use to determine what is good or not.
I have heard of some business people that say if you get more than two free drink tickets with your admission, then it is a good networking event. Some use the food as a measuring stick, assuming there is any food served.
It remains very important. It has been said that ‘if you are not networking … you are not working!”
As in any question, understanding the context is the key to providing the answer. This question is short on context. Lucas Bazemore provides some excellent advice on building a professional network.
I’m going to start off in a negative fashion. I don’t think it is important that you spend your time on ways to introduce yourself to people so that they care. You can’t force them to do so.